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Agreement between User and agreed-upon.com

The use of “We”,“Us”, “Our”, and “Site” are all legal representations of Agreed Upon. The agreed-upon.com website (the "Site") is comprised of various web pages operated by Agreed Upon ("Agreed"). agreed-upon.com is offered to you conditioned on your acceptance without modification of the terms, conditions, and notices contained herein (the "Terms"). Your use of agreed-upon.com constitutes your agreement to all such Terms. Please read these terms carefully, and keep a copy of them for your reference.

 You are entering your first contract on our site.

 Using Our database and services

 We welcome all individuals in an accepting environment. You are agreeing to conduct yourself appropriately on this site when you click the terms of use box. Don’t misuse our services and follow all policies provided. Additional terms of agreement will be provided if necessary for additional services or products provided in the future.

We are a dating website with three levels of Memberships. Basic Beast is our free profile, Kinky pie is twenty dollars a month and Masterly is sixty dollars a month. Our mission is to help you on your journey of self discovery, enrich your online dating experience, improve the vetting process for potential partners, and offer safety measures. Chat badges will be available in the future for purchase.

Privacy

Your use of agreed-upon.com is subject to Agreed's Privacy Policy. Please review our Privacy Policy, which also governs the Site and informs users of our data collection practices.

Electronic Communications

Visiting agreed-upon.com or sending emails to Agreed constitutes electronic communications. You consent to receive electronic communications and you agree that all agreements, notices, disclosures and other communications that we provide to you electronically, via email and on the Site, satisfy any legal requirement that such communications be in writing.

Your Account

If you use this site, you are responsible for maintaining the confidentiality of your account and password and for restricting access to your computer, and you agree to accept responsibility for all activities that occur under your account or password. You may not assign or otherwise transfer your account to any other person or entity. You acknowledge that Agreed is not responsible for third party access to your account that results from theft or misappropriation of your account. Agreed and its associates reserve the right to refuse or cancel service, terminate accounts, or remove or edit content in our sole discretion.

 

Profiles:

  • Completing your profile with honesty or the best of your knowledge is recommended to maintain the integrity of this site and to keep your experiences as safe as possible. The information you provide is valid and true to the best of your knowledge.

  • You must be over 21 to use this site.

  • Uploaded photos are of consenting adults with acquired permission to post. If informed otherwise, the photo will be taken down.You agree that all pictures posted are of you and any consenting adults. The acts performed are constentaul and negotiated. If the Agreed-Upon is informed that any minors or not consensual acts were used in the making of your profile you will be banned from the website. Please inform Us if there is anyone suspected of posting pictures or videos of things that violate our policies.

  • Your profile is customizable, share as much information about yourself that you are comfortable with. We always suggest the Masterly profile membership to optimize your results and matches.

  • We encourage you to keep it classy. Not everyone wants to see your personal bits so maybe save those for the back end of your profile.

  • Photos will be screen and taken down if deemed inappropriate. There is a standard we will upkeep.

Levels of Profile information:

  • Your general Profile is included on all levels of membership will be accessible for everyone to see and entice suitors or suitress.

  • The 2nd level of your profile, which is available only on Kinky pie and Masterly memberships is more intimate information. The information included is triggers, injuries and aftercare. The way for another individual to gain access to this information is through the Gem system. You have three questions in place for another user to answer correctly. For each satisfactory answer the individual gets a Gem, all three Gems give them the “Green Light” to your profile.

  • Green lighting someone allows them to access to your more sensitive profile they have access to that information until you “Red light” them.

  • You have the right and ability to cease communication with another user whenever you feel is necessary by “Red lighting” them. That action will block a user's ability to communicate with you. You do have the ability to unblock that user. Every time a user is “red lighted” it taxes that user a Gem. You can see how many Gems a user has obtained in the lifetime of their profile. Once you fill out your profile questions you are rewarded 1 Gem. Therefore if a user has 0 that individual has been Red Lighted.

  • To look at a sample profile please press the link.

Play Safe:

  • If you choose to meet with anyone on this site you are operating your own free agency. We merely encourage human connections and relationship enrichment. We are not to be held liable or accountable for anything done outside the bounds of this website. However if you have an experience you want to talk about, feel free to contact us. We are always interested in the betterment and keeping you safe.

  • You will not use this service to obtain information about another individual in order to abuse, troll, harass or dox another individual. If this rule is violated your membership will be and no longer privy to our community or services for a lifetime.

  • You have researched and educated yourself on the risks of the type play you participate. You will play responsibly.

  • When the word “play” is used within this site it indicates an encounter between individuals. Play can occur in the physical, video or otherwise but not limited to digital presents. May also have the definition of exchanging communication. You are responsible and liable for your own play.

Dating Congerie:

  • Dating congeries are only available in the “Masterly” memberships. Where you can ask a relationship advisor questions about your profile or interactions. These are not licensed professionals but they are well equipped to answer questions about poly, ddlg, bdsm basics. Our advisors are recognized dungeon members with years of experience. Please feel free to ask for advice via email. Video calls can be requested and is an additional fee to your membership.

 

Cancellation/Refund Policy

You may cancel your membership at any time. Upon cancelation we will bill you the next billing cycle and then your cancelation will be complete. All sales of services are final. Under no circumstances will refunds be admitted.

Links to Third Party Sites/Third Party Services

agreed-upon.com may contain links to other websites ("Linked Sites"). The Linked Sites are not under the control of Agreed and Agreed is not responsible for the contents of any Linked Site, including without limitation any link contained in a Linked Site, or any changes or updates to a Linked Site. Agreed is providing these links to you only as a convenience, and the inclusion of any link does not imply endorsement by Agreed of the site or any association with its operators.

Certain services made available via agreed-upon.com are delivered by third party sites and organizations. By using any product, service or functionality originating from the agreed-upon.com domain, you hereby acknowledge and consent that Agreed may share such information and data with any third party with whom Agreed has a contractual relationship to provide the requested product, service or functionality on behalf of agreed-upon.com users and customers.

No Unlawful or Prohibited Use/Intellectual Property

You are granted a non-exclusive, non-transferable, revocable license to access and use agreed-upon.com strictly in accordance with these terms of use. As a condition of your use of the Site, you warrant to Agreed that you will not use the Site for any purpose that is unlawful or prohibited by these Terms. You may not use the Site in any manner which could damage, disable, overburden, or impair the Site or interfere with any other party's use and enjoyment of the Site. You may not obtain or attempt to obtain any materials or information through any means not intentionally made available or provided for through the Site.

All content included as part of the Service, such as text, graphics, logos, images, as well as the compilation thereof, and any software used on the Site, is the property of Agreed or its suppliers and protected by copyright and other laws that protect intellectual property and proprietary rights. You agree to observe and abide by all copyright and other proprietary notices, legends or other restrictions contained in any such content and will not make any changes thereto.

You will not modify, publish, transmit, reverse engineer, participate in the transfer or sale, create derivative works, or in any way exploit any of the content, in whole or in part, found on the Site. Agreed content is not for resale. Your use of the Site does not entitle you to make any unauthorized use of any protected content, and in particular you will not delete or alter any proprietary rights or attribution notices in any content. You will use protected content solely for your personal use, and will make no other use of the content without the express written permission of Agreed and the copyright owner. You agree that you do not acquire any ownership rights in any protected content. We do not grant you any licenses, express or implied, to the intellectual property of Agreed or our licensors except as expressly authorized by these Terms.

Use of Communication Services

The Site may contain bulletin board services, chat areas, news groups, forums, communities, personal web pages, calendars, and/or other message or communication facilities designed to enable you to communicate with the public at large or with a group (collectively, "Communication Services"). You agree to use the Communication Services only to post, send and receive messages and material that are proper and related to the particular Communication Service.

By way of example, and not as a limitation, you agree that when using a Communication Service, you will not: defame, abuse, harass, stalk, threaten or otherwise violate the legal rights (such as rights of privacy and publicity) of others; publish, post, upload, distribute or disseminate any inappropriate, profane, defamatory, infringing, obscene, indecent or unlawful topic, name, material or information; upload files that contain software or other material protected by intellectual property laws (or by rights of privacy of publicity) unless you own or control the rights thereto or have received all necessary consents; upload files that contain viruses, corrupted files, or any other similar software or programs that may damage the operation of another's computer; advertise or offer to sell or buy any goods or services for any business purpose, unless such Communication Service specifically allows such messages; conduct or forward surveys, contests, pyramid schemes or chain letters; download any file posted by another user of a Communication Service that you know, or reasonably should know, cannot be legally distributed in such manner; falsify or delete any author attributions, legal or other proper notices or proprietary designations or labels of the origin or source of software or other material contained in a file that is uploaded; restrict or inhibit any other user from using and enjoying the Communication Services; violate any code of conduct or other guidelines which may be applicable for any particular Communication Service; harvest or otherwise collect information about others, including email addresses, without their consent; violate any applicable laws or regulations.

Agreed has no obligation to monitor the Communication Services. However, Agreed reserves the right to review materials posted to a Communication Service and to remove any materials in its sole discretion. Agreed reserves the right to terminate your access to any or all of the Communication Services at any time without notice for any reason whatsoever.

Agreed reserves the right at all times to disclose any information as necessary to satisfy any applicable law, regulation, legal process or governmental request, or to edit, refuse to post or to remove any information or materials, in whole or in part, in Agreed Upon’s sole discretion.

Always use caution when giving out any personally identifying information about yourself or your children in any Communication Service. Agreed does not control or endorse the content, messages or information found in any Communication Service and, therefore, Agreed specifically disclaims any liability with regard to the Communication Services and any actions resulting from your participation in any Communication Service. Managers and hosts are not authorized Agreed spokespersons, and their views do not necessarily reflect those of Agreed.

Materials uploaded to a Communication Service may be subject to posted limitations on usage, reproduction and/or dissemination. You are responsible for adhering to such limitations if you upload the materials.

Harassment and Conduct:

  • There are discussion forums, and additional information provided but you are personally responsible for yourself as an individual using your best judgement please. Harassment will not be tolerated please treat others as you would want to be treated. If misconduct is reported we will investigate and take appropriate action such as suspending your account or banning you from the site.

  • Open Door Forum is available for members to inform each other of individuals actions that may be of concern. You can utilize that forum to praise partners or individuals that play especially nice as well.

  • There is a Suite Haven Forum for a check in buddy. Where you can ask someone to be your safety buddy and check in with safe words. We don’t suggest sharing your exact location unless you are comfortable to do so this is really meant for a safety word check-in forum. As well as an Open Door forum for you to discuss experiences.

  • Do not force your partner into an agreement that you haven't discussed or are ready for. Have the TALK.

  • Do not use sensitive information against the other party. It is a privilege that they let you look at it. And it is meant for the betterment of vetting or negotiation.

  • In the specific case you find a Financial Dominant or Mistress funds with be exchanged outside of this domain.

Chat and Forum etiquette: 

  • We feel that this should not have to be spelled out for most mouth breathers but let’s review so everyone has the same level of understanding. The chat and forums feature are there for intellectual exchange of ideas, and interest.

  • Please be respectful everyones thoughts and expressions.

  • Do not troll, spam or use all caps to gain attention.

  • Do not use features for personal ads.

  • Babies and Littles do not use features to gain whole rooms attention. And Absolutely no potty play, diaper talk keep that for private DMs if both parties agree.

  • Daddies and Mommies you have our permission to swaddle anyone acting out.

  • Topics that are off limits: ending anyone’s life, anything involving minors, rape, or beastiality.

  • Monitors and Administrators will be appointed to rooms to regulate conversations.

  • You will be booted from chat if terms are broken.

Materials Provided to agreed-upon.com or Posted on Any Agreed Web Page

Agreed does not claim ownership of the materials you provide to agreed-upon.com (including feedback and suggestions) or post, upload, input or submit to any Agreed Site or our associated services (collectively "Submissions"). However, by posting, uploading, inputting, providing or submitting your Submission you are granting Agreed, our affiliated companies and necessary sublicensees permission to use your Submission in connection with the operation of their Internet businesses including, without limitation, the rights to: copy, distribute, transmit, publicly display, publicly perform, reproduce, edit, translate and reformat your Submission; and to publish your name in connection with your Submission.

No compensation will be paid with respect to the use of your Submission, as provided herein. Agreed is under no obligation to post or use any Submission you may provide and may remove any Submission at any time in Agreed's sole discretion.

Contact Us

Agreed welcomes your questions or comments regarding the Terms: 

By posting, uploading, inputting, providing or submitting your Submission you warrant and represent that you own or otherwise control all of the rights to your Submission as described in this section including, without limitation, all the rights necessary for you to provide, post, upload, input or submit the Submissions.

 

Third Party Accounts

You will be able to connect your Agreed account to third party accounts. By connecting your Agreed account to your third party account, you acknowledge and agree that you are consenting to the continuous release of information about you to others (in accordance with your privacy settings on those third party sites). If you do not want information about you to be shared in this manner, do not use this feature.

International Users

The Service is controlled, operated and administered by Agreed from our offices within the USA. If you access the Service from a location outside the USA, you are responsible for compliance with all local laws. You agree that you will not use the Agreed Content accessed through agreed-upon.com in any country or in any manner prohibited by any applicable laws, restrictions or regulations.

Indemnification

You agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless Agreed, its officers, directors, employees, agents and third parties, for any losses, costs, liabilities and expenses (including reasonable attorney's fees) relating to or arising out of your use of or inability to use the Site or services, any user postings made by you, your violation of any terms of this Agreement or your violation of any rights of a third party, or your violation of any applicable laws, rules or regulations. Agreed reserves the right, at its own cost, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter otherwise subject to indemnification by you, in which event you will fully cooperate with Agreed in asserting any available defenses.

Arbitration

In the event the parties are not able to resolve any dispute between them arising out of or concerning these Terms and Conditions, or any provisions hereof, whether in contract, tort, or otherwise at law or in equity for damages or any other relief, then such dispute shall be resolved only by final and binding arbitration pursuant to the Federal Arbitration Act, conducted by a single neutral arbitrator and administered by the American Arbitration Association, or a similar arbitration service selected by the parties, in a location mutually agreed upon by the parties. The arbitrator's award shall be final, and judgment may be entered upon it in any court having jurisdiction. In the event that any legal or equitable action, proceeding or arbitration arises out of or concerns these Terms and Conditions, the prevailing party shall be entitled to recover its costs and reasonable attorney's fees. The parties agree to arbitrate all disputes and claims in regards to these Terms and Conditions or any disputes arising as a result of these Terms and Conditions, whether directly or indirectly, including Tort claims that are a result of these Terms and Conditions. The parties agree that the Federal Arbitration Act governs the interpretation and enforcement of this provision. The entire dispute, including the scope and enforceability of this arbitration provision shall be determined by the Arbitrator. This arbitration provision shall survive the termination of these Terms and Conditions.

Class Action Waiver

Any arbitration under these Terms and Conditions will take place on an individual basis; class arbitrations and class/representative/collective actions are not permitted. THE PARTIES AGREE THAT A PARTY MAY BRING CLAIMS AGAINST THE OTHER ONLY IN EACH'S INDIVIDUAL CAPACITY, AND NOT AS A PLAINTIFF OR CLASS MEMBER IN ANY PUTATIVE CLASS, COLLECTIVE AND/ OR REPRESENTATIVE PROCEEDING, SUCH AS IN THE FORM OF A PRIVATE ATTORNEY GENERAL ACTION AGAINST THE OTHER. Further, unless both you and Agreed Upon agree otherwise, the arbitrator may not consolidate more than one person's claims, and may not otherwise preside over any form of a representative or class proceeding.

Liability Disclaimer

THE INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, PRODUCTS, AND SERVICES INCLUDED IN OR AVAILABLE THROUGH THE SITE MAY INCLUDE INACCURACIES OR TYPOGRAPHICAL ERRORS. CHANGES ARE PERIODICALLY ADDED TO THE INFORMATION HEREIN. AGREED UPON AND/OR ITS SUPPLIERS MAY MAKE IMPROVEMENTS AND/OR CHANGES IN THE SITE AT ANY TIME.

AGREED UPON AND/OR ITS SUPPLIERS MAKE NO REPRESENTATIONS ABOUT THE SUITABILITY, RELIABILITY, AVAILABILITY, TIMELINESS, AND ACCURACY OF THE INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, PRODUCTS, SERVICES AND RELATED GRAPHICS CONTAINED ON THE SITE FOR ANY PURPOSE. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, ALL SUCH INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, PRODUCTS, SERVICES AND RELATED GRAPHICS ARE PROVIDED "AS IS" WITHOUT WARRANTY OR CONDITION OF ANY KIND. AGREED UPON AND/OR ITS SUPPLIERS HEREBY DISCLAIM ALL WARRANTIES AND CONDITIONS WITH REGARD TO THIS INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, PRODUCTS, SERVICES AND RELATED GRAPHICS, INCLUDING ALL IMPLIED WARRANTIES OR CONDITIONS OF MERCHANTABILITY, FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE, TITLE AND NON-INFRINGEMENT.

TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT SHALL AGREED UPON AND/OR ITS SUPPLIERS BE LIABLE FOR ANY DIRECT, INDIRECT, PUNITIVE, INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL DAMAGES OR ANY DAMAGES WHATSOEVER INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION, DAMAGES FOR LOSS OF USE, DATA OR PROFITS, ARISING OUT OF OR IN ANY WAY CONNECTED WITH THE USE OR PERFORMANCE OF THE SITE, WITH THE DELAY OR INABILITY TO USE THE SITE OR RELATED SERVICES, THE PROVISION OF OR FAILURE TO PROVIDE SERVICES, OR FOR ANY INFORMATION, SOFTWARE, PRODUCTS, SERVICES AND RELATED GRAPHICS OBTAINED THROUGH THE SITE, OR OTHERWISE ARISING OUT OF THE USE OF THE SITE, WHETHER BASED ON CONTRACT, TORT, NEGLIGENCE, STRICT LIABILITY OR OTHERWISE, EVEN IF AGREED UPON OR ANY OF ITS SUPPLIERS HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF DAMAGES. BECAUSE SOME STATES/JURISDICTIONS DO NOT ALLOW THE EXCLUSION OR LIMITATION OF LIABILITY FOR CONSEQUENTIAL OR INCIDENTAL DAMAGES, THE ABOVE LIMITATION MAY NOT APPLY TO YOU. IF YOU ARE DISSATISFIED WITH ANY PORTION OF THE SITE, OR WITH ANY OF THESE TERMS OF USE, YOUR SOLE AND EXCLUSIVE REMEDY IS TO DISCONTINUE USING THE SITE.

Termination/Access Restriction

Agreed reserves the right, in its sole discretion, to terminate your access to the Site and the related services or any portion thereof at any time, without notice. To the maximum extent permitted by law, this agreement is governed by the laws of the State of Florida and you hereby consent to the exclusive jurisdiction and venue of courts in Florida in all disputes arising out of or relating to the use of the Site. Use of the Site is unauthorized in any jurisdiction that does not give effect to all provisions of these Terms, including, without limitation, this section.

You agree that no joint venture, partnership, employment, or agency relationship exists between you and Agreed as a result of this agreement or use of the Site. Agreed Upon's performance of this agreement is subject to existing laws and legal process, and nothing contained in this agreement is in derogation of Agreed's right to comply with governmental, court and law enforcement requests or requirements relating to your use of the Site or information provided to or gathered by Agreed with respect to such use. If any part of this agreement is determined to be invalid or unenforceable pursuant to applicable law including, but not limited to, the warranty disclaimers and liability limitations set forth above, then the invalid or unenforceable provision will be deemed superseded by a valid, enforceable provision that most closely matches the intent of the original provision and the remainder of the agreement shall continue in effect.

Unless otherwise specified herein, this agreement constitutes the entire agreement between the user and Agreed with respect to the Site and it supersedes all prior or contemporaneous communications and proposals, whether electronic, oral or written, between the user and Agreed with respect to the Site. A printed version of this agreement and of any notice given in electronic form shall be admissible in judicial or administrative proceedings based upon or relating to this agreement to the same extent and subject to the same conditions as other business documents and records originally generated and maintained in printed form. It is the express wish to the parties that this agreement and all related documents be written in English.

Changes to Terms

Agreed reserves the right, in its sole discretion, to change the Terms under which agreed-upon.com is offered. The most current version of the Terms will supersede all previous versions. Agreed encourages you to periodically review the Terms to stay informed of our updates.