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Threesomes: A slided story





 

 

 

Wanna have a threesome? Group sex can be a life-changing experience or at least very enlightening for oneself. Who you choose and how you choose speaks volumes about... well, you. In a non-sexual way, this "team-building" exercise shows your "participation game" and what kind of a team player you are. I have seen and heard of all sorts of experiences, some that drew people closer together, and others damaged relationships. In this situation, check your head "space" and your mental well being before you play. And how do you feel about yourself? These things shape if you are okay with participating. Being in the throes of conquering primal desires sounds deliciously exciting. But the path that leads there is most certainly is communication. I can not say it enough communication leads to understanding, and understanding leads to acceptance. It is best to lay all intentions, desires, concerns, and goals on the table. 

 

          Furthermore, this is where you might want to check your ego. I know; how would your ego get in the way of your magnificent-self? Well, it can promote jealousy unless you are secure in yourself and what you have to offer. Know that you add something unique that no one else does in this experience. Also, it is pertinent to consider the dynamics of multiple partner play. In any "team-building exercise," you have a leader and follower type of mentalities. You could say that there are dominant and submissive personalities. It is possible to have two of one kind and have a good Ol' time. 

I have to say having two Dominant personality types brings one question to mind. "Who is the submissive supposed to listen to?" Just be aware that a specific dynamic could breed a power struggle unless that is the goal. And, of course, the idea of having the pleasure of two submissive personalities or role-playing partners sounds like a wet dream to any Dominant. Submissives get enjoyment from acts of service and pleasing their partners. So the dynamic mentioned above is prone to be less problematic, especially if the dominant personality cultivates a safe place for both individuals. Ensuring that everyone feels valued diffuses the possibility of competition between submissives.

I want to share some of my insight with you on "knowing your dynamics" to understand the situation or how energy can mold the experience. I know a couple who had established their relationship as open from the beginning and regularly participate in group play. There doesn't seem to be any jealous issues between them because they came into their relationship with the understanding of each other's worth and desires. I know of another couple that had a long term relationship and decides to experiment on a whim. The intimate act was incredible, but later in discussion, it was discovered that they should have spoken more extensively about it beforehand. And the last example involves three people who didn't have relationship ties. They just happen to be in the right place at the right time. Literally, the energy and setting were sublime, and they cultivated the amount of trust in each other to experience something incredible.

        AND as always, the setting plays a big part in creating an atmosphere of sensuality and safety. Finding the proper place and tone depends on the desires of the interaction. Don't overthink it, but consider everything that sets the mood if you have time to plan. Unless you just enjoy the sounds of primal desires being played out. This can one of the most exceptional interactions you have with other people if you allow it. 

 Another part of the setting is the knowledge of the individuals involved. I know we are currently in a society with concern for one's health and well being, so figure out the questions that make you feel safe to engage. Everything is acceptable to ask for to make yourself feel comfortable, covid, or std results. I know that makes pick-up play more complicated but be prepared for questions if you want to play in quick negotiations. The worse you will hear is possibly no, and you shouldn't be intimidated by that. Equip yourself so you can operate with informed consent.

 

 

  I am a pro pleasure, pro safe,  pro-self-aware, and a protect yourself type of person. I respect the fact that we are all individuals that have wants and needs.

 Please enjoy each other- 

        Princess Unity

 

 

 

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